Economy & Casino Guide

Why do we have House creds? It allows people to purchase items from the Casino Shop. Most of these items award special Hobby roles.

Basic Commands

$bal Check your balance
$top See the list of richest Residents
$give @User ### Transfer credits from your cash to another Resident
$work (in the Employment Office) Make some credits.

You have CASH credits and BANKED credits. Credits in your bank cannot be gambled nor can they be used to buy items from the store or given to other Residents.

$deposit ### Will move a number of your credits into your bank account.
$withdraw ### Will move credits from your bank to cash.

The Games

The casino has the following games: Roulette, Russian Roulette, Slots, Blackjack, and Robot Chicken fights. Each game is set up to run in its own room. The commands for playing the games are pinned in each room.

Customs of the House

Every community has its own culture. This guide will detail the particular customs and general workings of the House.

Announced Residents

If the Butler announces someone in a channel you are chatting in and you see it, the customary code of polite behavior is to give them a greeting. We are not strangers to one another. Be inclusive.

Chat Level 10

Upon becoming a Resident, you start to earn experience points when chatting (once every 15 seconds max) except in the following channels:

The excluded channels are not primarily social chat channels. We have a special media section known as the Locked Box. This is where Residents can post pictures they don’t feel comfortable sharing with every new Resident that comes into the House. Only those who have chatted enough to reach Level 10 will earn the Trusted status and be able to access the Locked Box.

Residents who leave the server, will have their chat level and experience reset to zero. Trusted status is a privilege and may be denied or revoked by House Staff.

To view your current level, go to the #housekeeping channel and type !rank.

Making Suggestions

The House Staff is very responsive to the ideas of Residents and strives to continually improve the amenities and excite the tenants. Using the -suggest command followed by an idea or request will create a suggestion card and file it in the #suggestions box.

The card will identify the Resident who made the suggestion and provide up and down vote reactions. Other residents can then vote for or against the suggestion. Popular suggestions will be added to the House Trello board as a to do. Once a suggestion is completed, a Staff member will add a ✅ reaction to it.

Any Resident who makes a suggestion that gets implemented will receive the Idea-ist tag to recognize their contribution to the House.

Sweeping Away Clutter

When people post images to the #selfies, #our-lives and #private-selfies channels, it is common for other Residents to give them respect and comment on what was shared. All of this can create a lot of clutter between images and cause a lot of scrolling to see older images.

In order to reduce the clutter, the Butler will come in and sweep out any posts that did not have a file attachment and are 24 hours old. This will help keep these rooms tidy but not discourage Residents from socializing there.

Interacting with the Butler

The Butler is the primary bot for the House Taboo. The Butler is the one who checks to make sure visitors agree to the rules and state their age before being allowed in as a Guest. He also watches over the house and removes unruly members. In addition to his numerous administrative roles, he also performs many actions at the discretion of Residents.

Many of the commands for the butler can be written in plain English. The requirement to trigger the command is described in this style:

butler + (word 1|word 2|word 2|word 4). In this example, Any sentence that contains word Butler and any one or more of the other listed words will trigger the command. Capitalization and punctuation are not relevant.

Have the Butler announce you

This is a specific trigger command. Type -announce in any room and the Butler will tell everyone you have returned. The custom of the house is if you see someone get announced, it is polite that you greet them.

Ask for a drink

butler + drink
Butler, I’m thirsty, would you bring me a drink?
I need a drink, Butler.

Ask for a cup of tea

butler + tea
Butler, I need a cup of tea.
Bring me tea, Butler.

Ask for a cup of coffee

butler + coffee
Butler, I would like some coffee.
Coffee. Now, Butler.

Ask for a hug

butler + hug
Butler, I need a hug.

Thank the Butler

butler + (thank|thanks|ty|thank-you|appreciate|awesome)
Butler, I appreciate that!
Thanks, butler!

Say good morning to the Butler

butler + (morn|mornin|morning)
Morning, Butler.
Good morn Butler.

Ask the Butler to tell you a joke

butler + joke
Ok Butler, share a joke with us.
Tell me a joke, Butler.

Request a question from the Butler

butler + question
Butler, ask us a naughty question!
We would like a question, Butler.

Ask the butler to share some wisdom

butler + wisdom
Butler, please share some of your sage wisdom.
We would like to hear a bit of your wisdom dear Butler.

Have the butler share the Magic 8-Ball

-8ball Followed by any yes or no question
In the library, there is a Divination room. If you go there, you may use this command. He will shake the ball and show you your answer.

Have the butler order a round of drinks

butler + any 3 of: (round|make|everyone|everybody|all|room|drinks)
The butler will bring out a tray of drinks and offer a toast to the room.

Using Discord

If you are new to complex online community server apps, Discord can be very daunting, especially if you are coming here after being used to much smaller group IM apps like Kik. This quick guide is intended to just give you the basics to help you feel a little less overwhelmed.

A Discord server is basically a collection of text and voice rooms, these are also called “channels”. The rooms can be organized together in categories.

This is the channel view. The name of the channel is in the top bar. A Discord server is a collection of text and voice channels, usually grouped into categories.

This is where you will read and send messages. Anything you type will be sent only to the specific channel you are viewing. As a Resident you can add add media by tapping the + sign at the bottom left. You can send an emoji by tapping the smiley face at the bottom right.

You can also add an emoji to anyone’s comment by long pressing on it and select Add reaction. You can use any emoji. You can also tap on any comment reaction and +1 it.

When you click the three lines in the upper left of the channel view, the navigation panel will open. On the far left are the icons for the servers you are on. The currently selected server will have an indicator bar to the left of its icon.

Categories can be expanded or collapsed by clicking on them. Channel you have permission to view will show up in the list. You can scroll up and down through the list of channels.

If there are new messages in a channel that is offscreen, a NEW UNREAD message will point up or down to let you know where to scroll.

Channels with unread messages will be bold and have an indicator to the left of them.

Clicking on a channel will switch your channel view to it. You can also LONG press on any category or channel to mute notifications (for example if you don’t care that there are new messages in the casino).

If you tap the two-people icon in the upper right of the channel view, it opens the list of users who can view your currently selected channel.

You can also see the channel Topic (we use it as a description of the channel purpose).

Tapping on any of the users in this list will bring up their server profile.

The roles that you select in the #roles channel will be displayed here. It’s useful to check the selected profiles of people you are chatting with so you already have a general idea about their Gender, orientation, power dynamic, age, and interests.

There is sometimes a bug where all of the user’s selected roles might not display on mobile. A workaround is to leave the app open, lock the screen and unlock the screen and it forces the list to refresh.

You can scroll down to see their Discord profile, including a list of shared servers. From their Discord profile, you can also add them as a Friend, so that you can chat with them anytime, even if you don’t share a server.

Sometimes admins will pin important messages from the past to a channel.

Click the 3 dots on the upper left of the channel screen and select Pinned messages to read those.

How To Format Text

A single asterisk is used on either side of text you want to be italicized. This is italic.

A double asterisk on either side of text will BOLD it.

Two underscores on either side will underline text.

Two tildes (~) on either side is strikethrough text

These formatting commands can also be combined. For example, three asterisks will be bold and italic.

Choosing Your Identity Roles

This server have a very detailed list of self-assignable roles. You go to the #roles channel and scroll to the top.

Each menu has a list of options identified by letter.

At the bottom of each list are the same letters in a horizontal list.The list on the bottom is composed of “reactions”. A reaction is an emoji that can be applied to a post. Other people can also click on the emoji, to add to it. Sort of like with Facebook and “likes”.

You will click on the corresponding reaction from the list to have that role assigned to you. You can click on it again to remove the role. For example, if you decide you no longer like anal, you can take that role off.

Some groups only allow one role from the menu, others allow any number of roles from the menu.

Room Guide

💙 = Social Chat ONLY. You may not RP in this room.
💚 = Role Play Chat ONLY. Do not use this room for socializing.
💛 = Mixed Social and Role Play chat allowed here.
🧡 = Mixed Social and Lite Role Play.
🖤 = Not a general social or Role Play chat room. It will be assigned a specific purpose. Such as training, Q&A, etc.
⏲️ = Time curated content. These rooms will have all non-media attachment posts cleaned out after 24 hours. This is for rooms where Residents share selfies, and other personal pics that are often discussed. After 24 hours, the media is considered Archived.
📁 = Primarily for sharing files and media
📘 = Resident writings and poetry
🤖 = Bot command room

Any room not adorned with an icon is considered to be a non-chat room and it has a different primary use, such as bot commands, casino gaming, and so forth.



This is the point of entry for Guests who come to the server. It has the server rules, the checkbox you tapped to signify you accept the rules and some miscellaneous other useful info to get you started, including a link to this House Companion.


The second room new Guests see. This forces everyone to at least select their age range before they can have access to the rest of the Entrance and the Guest Wing.


This is where Guests and Residents go to select roles that describe things as their power dynamics, kinks, gender, sexual orientation, what they are looking for, DM Status, and regional location. These roles are visible to others in the House and serves as a quick overview of who you are.


Links and information about cool official House Taboo merch. A portion of your purchases go to financially support the community.


Information about becoming a Patreon Subscriber. A monthly pledge of $1, $5 or $10 gets you special VIP recognition on the server plus daily bonus Casino credits to use for gambling, trading to other Residents and buying items from the Casino Shop.


Links to pages here in the House Guides category.

Guest Wing

#parlor 🧡

This is the only room in the House where Guests can chat. It is important to be friendly and welcoming here. While this is a mixed Social and RP chat room, no sexual RP is permitted. Regular RP should be Lite to so as to allow non-RP guests an opportunity to socialize as well.


This is the standard “bot commands” room. It is used for bumping the server and querying other bots for info about things such as your chat level, your server stats, etc. It keeps this type of non-conversational text out of the actual chat rooms.


This is an informational only channel that reports when people join and leave the server. It also notes any Staff actions taken such as bans, kicks and mutes.


When you have a suggestion for the House, you can type -suggest followed by a brief description of what it is you would like to see. The butler will post your suggestion here along with an upvote and downvote arrow. Members can vote on suggestions. Popular suggestions will be put on the Staff To-Do list. If you suggest something that gets implemented, you will receive a special role called Idea-Ist.


Important notices of changes, new features, etc will be posted here by Staff. The house is constantly evolving with new roles, new rooms, new features, new Shop Items, and so on.

parlor (voice channel)

This is a Voice party-line, with no current limit on the number of participants. People without microphones can join and listen.

Resident Wing

#hot-tub 💙

This is the primary social only general chat.

#slow-chat 💛

This room only allows people to speak once every 15 seconds. A slow-paced chat room, for relaxed, thoughtful conversations.

#kitchen 💛

Can be used for 1950s household kink RP, or sharing pics of food and favorite recipes.

#bathroom 💚

This RP only room is for public erotic RP. If someone is having a scene with someone else, DO NOT interrupt them. Watch. If they want you to join, they will let you know. The theme is, of course bathroom play. It could be anything from shower sex to golden showers (or other toilet kinks). If it’s not your thing, don’t comment.

#bedroom 💚

This RP only room is for public erotic RP. If someone is having a scene with someone else, DO NOT interrupt them. Watch. If they want you to join, they will let you know.


A general role play only room with no specific theme. Sexual and non-sexual RP can occur here.

#qna 🖤

This is the place to ask any questions about kink, fetishes, the lifestyle, power dynamics, etc. It’s NOT for RP or general chat. Be helpful and give quality guidance if you choose to answer a question. If you start your question with @QnA that will tag every resident who is interested in answering questions and may garner a faster response.

#fireplace 🖤

Residents can gather around the fireplace for regular BDSM training discussions based on moderated discussion topics.

#smoking-lounge 🖤

This is for controversial topics that often lead to heated debates, such as anything to do with politics and religion. Be civil. Server rules still apply here. Arguments are ok. Attack ideas, not those presenting them. If you get frustrated, mute the channel and take a break.

residents (voice channel)

A voice room that is only available to Residents.

The Conservatory


For talking about all things movie and leaving recommendations/links to trailers.


For listening to music through the bot as well as play the Music Quiz game.


For playing Cards Against Humanity


A strange Occult cat lives here and can do tarot, runes, astrology, numerology, and more. The butler will also shake a classic Magic Eight ball if you use the command -8ball followed by your Yes or No question.


For controlling the Groovy music bot.


These are primarily media rooms with a few exceptions. None of them are considered social or RP chat.


Residents can make a detailed post sharing any personal information here that they would like. Personal ads are ok. Only 1 post per Resident. You may edit/update/change your introduction any number of times.

#selfies ⏲️

Pictures taken by residents of themselves. All types of selfies are allowed here. If you are not the focus of the image, don’t post it. G rated to X, all genders and orientations.

#our-lives ⏲️

Non-selfie pics taken by Residents. Share your world.


Every server has this channel. Ours is no exception.


Links to written erotica. You can also post your own stories and poems.

We also have a #misc, #bondage and an #s-and-m room for relevant media, both user created and found online.


This is where the gambling happens. The #lobby had details about how to play the games. The #bank is where you go to trade credits with other Residents. The #shop is where you can purchase a wide range of eclectic items that will bestow special non-kink roles upon you that can let you share your hobbies and other interests.

We have 2 blackjack tables, 2 slot machines, a roulette-table, a robot chicken fighting area and a small backroom that smells of blood and gunpowder…

Additionally, the casino has an #employment-office where you can do odd jobs every half hour for extra creds.

How To Verify

Joining our House as an age verified Resident is a quick and easy process. But before you begin, you need to spend some time chatting with a few of the other members and select some roles that share your dynamics and interests with us. The Guest period is just as much about us getting to know you and it is about you deciding if this is the right place for you.

When you ask to verify, the Porter may look at your message history first to see if you have engaged with the community at all. If not, you will be asked to socialize with us more and then try again later.

But once you’ve done this, and things feel like a good match, getting moved in is a simple three-step procedure.


Have a photo-ID image prepared. This needs to be a government issued ID or passport with all personally identifying information obscured except for the face picture and the date of birth. For example:

The ID photo must reasonably appear to be a real government issued ID. If anything appears suspicious, the Porters may choose to deny your request.

Step Two.

In the #parlor type: @Porter I would like to verify, please.

A staff member will DM you and ask for your prepared photo-ID.

If you do not have an ID ready, do not message the Porters. This can delay your transition from Guest to Resident.

Also keep in mind we have a small, volunteer staff. If no Porter is online, be patient. One will message you as soon as they can.

Step Three.

You will be instructed to take a selfie with a particular pose and send that to the Porter who contacted you. They will compare the images to make sure you appear to be the person in the ID photo. Once your age can be confirmed, then you will be granted Resident status and have full access to all rooms in the House.


Always keep in mind that anyone with the Guest role has not been age verified and may not be the age they claim to be. You are certainly allowed to communicate privately with Guests in any manner you choose, but there is always a risk that they are a minor. Take caution in what you send to them. Sending erotic images to or receiving them from an underage individual is a very serious crime.

Learning from Each Other

One of the benefits from a community is the pool of knowledge and experience that it contains. Many residents are long time members in the kink and BDSM lifestyle. But many are also new and eager to learn.

“There are naive questions, tedious questions, ill-phrased questions, questions put after inadequate self-criticism. But every question is a cry to understand the world. There is no such thing as a dumb question.”

Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark

If you have a question about anything BDSM, kink or fetish related, use the #qna channel to post it.

Some of our members have elected to have the @QnA📟 role. If you start your question with @QnA it will notify every resident with this role. Some will surely come to respond with their own personal insights and understanding.

The Reputation System

Like most social media platforms, there are systems for showing someone you liked what they said or shared. Facebook has the “like” button. Reddit has upvotes. And we give each other “rep” or Respect.

Reasons to give a point:

  • The member said something that you liked
  • The member was very helpful to you or someone else
  • The member posted a selfie that you liked
  • The member contributed some quality content that you appreciated

Reasons NOT to give a point:

  • You have a fantasy that if you give them rep they will want to have sex with you
  • You are being competitive and you want to give them a greater chance of being recognized

Command to give Rep

% @User
!! @User
giverep @User
rep @User
respect @User

Do not repeatedly give someone points for the same specific action.

You may give rep to a person only once per image or cool comment, and only those that were posted in the past 24 hours. DO NOT go back through channel history and rep stuff you did not or were not able to rep when they were posted. This can result in you being restricted from using the rep system.

Don’t be obsessive and only give rep to one person. Spread the love. Abuse of the system will result in your right to participate in it being permanently revoked. The staff can easily monitor logs of rep given by user.

Reputation points will typically be reset at the beginning of the month. The person with the highest reputation will be recognized with their choice of one of three roles:

Mr.Popular, Ms. Popular, or simply Popular.

Each month that title will be passed to another person (you cannot have the popular role for two consecutive months (you can still receive rep and may be eligible for any other contests that are reputation based).

Kink Role Definitions

Pretty much any activity can be a kink if it arouses you in some way. However, we’ve selected some of the more popular kinks and allow users to select them so others can see what turns them on. This list gives a quick definition of many of the kinks you can identify with at the House.

Age Play

A form of roleplaying in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age. Ageplay is roleplaying between adults, and involves consent from all parties. Ageplay can be sexual or non-sexual, it all depends on what people agree to within their relationship. Portraying any age can be the goal of ageplay, from babies, to the elderly. Usually this involves someone pretending to be younger than they actually are, but more rarely can involve assuming an older role.


Penetrating or being anally penetrated by toys, fingers, or a penis.


Sex with strangers through various practices such as dogging, gloryholes, cruising public restrooms, or certain swinging situations.


Buying and selling of others as slaves. This is a consensual practice most common in the Gorean Master/slave subculture. Most often this is virtual, but some social groups practice this in real life. The slave consents to the transfer of ownership and serves their new Master accordingly.


Sexual intercourse without a condom.


Attraction to Big Beautiful Women.


Being sexually aroused by facial hair.


Being attracted to Big Hairy Men.


Enjoying biting others and being bitten. This may or may not include breaking of skin.


Any practice that causes bleeding. This can be from cutting, biting, severe impact play and in some cases can include menstruation.


Branding a human is much like branding an animal: a piece of sterilized metal is held in a fire till it’s glowing hot, and then placed quickly onto the skin to leave a permanent scar. It’s a way to represent social and emotional relationships as an inherent part of the physical form. Most common in the Gorean subculture.


Restricting and controlling a person’s ability to breathe. It can range from gentle choking to using a material such as a plastic bag to reduce the oxygen to the brain. This results in a sexual “high”.


Cock and ball torture. Hurting and being hurt. Usually by kicking, hitting and squeezing the male genitalia.


Using a device to prevent sexual intercourse and masturbation that cannot be removed by the person being kept “chaste”. Typically, this device entirely covers the genitalia and is locked with a key.


Consensual-non-consent. This is often called “rape play” and involves one partner overpowering the other, despite being told no and fighting back. CNC play should always have an agreed upon safe word to put an end to the scene if necessary.

Cock worship

A type of objectification where a male’s penis is the soul focus of attention.


Wearing clothes that are typically worn by the opposite gender.


The act of a man inserting his penis into another mans foreskin.


Double-penetration. Being penetrated by two cocks or dildos simultaneously. It can be one in the ass, one in the vagina, or variants such as double vaginal penetration.


Being sexually aroused by apocalyptic or post-apocalyptic fetish fashion and scenarios. Typically heavy into leather, rubber, PVC, gas-masks, etc.(edited)


Aroused by fluids released during orgasm. This covers things such as squirting and bukkake.


Exposing yourself to others, often in risky situations where you would otherwise be covered. This does include being turned on by being watched during sex or masturbation in private or on cam.

Fifties Household

Arousal by the fashion and stereotypical lifestyle of the American 1950s relationship dynamic. The woman is cheerfully subservient to the male, works at home, prepares meals and generally takes care of all the domestic needs of the male. The male is the solitary financial provider and provides the female with the material things she needs and desires.


Also known as pyrophilia, this is a sexual fetish in which a subject derives gratification from fire and fire-starting activity.


Using the entire hand to penetrate the vagina and/or anus.


This type of objectification is a fetish where partners are allowed to fuck any part of their partner at any time.


Non-penetrative sex where the participants use friction to orgasm. “Dry-humping” is one example. It can take on many forms, such as two men rubbing their penises together, or two women “scissoring” or “tribbing”.


An attraction to the type known for being intelligent and confident in their technical skills, but l socially awkward. This can include gamers, anime lovers, marching band members, techies, and other fringe social groups.

Golden Showers

Urinating on others or being urinated on.


Being restrained/restraining. The person restrained typically will be unable to make significant movement. Being wrapped like a mummy or having all your limbs tightly bound by ropes are examples.

Impact, Heavy

Hitting or being hit…hard. Significant bruising and potentially breaking of the skin in some cases like severe caning. You will feel the effects of this for days and days.

Impact, Light

Hitting or being hit…light to moderately. Some bruising. Some whelps. Stingy but not long lasting.


Being caged or caging others. Often seen in M/s and pet play. Some people have a large dog crate set up with pillows and may sleep/nap in their cage.


Also known as “sapiosexual”, it is an attraction to those who are perceived as being “smart”. These people need their mind to be stimulated as well as their bodies.


Sensation play where one person enjoys the feel of the cold blade of a knife pressed against them, and the tip being traced over their skin. Blood and cutting can be combined with this fetish, but not always.


Sexual desire from an intense emotional connection.


Being aroused by the act and state of being married and/or engaged. Can also be an arousal with having intercourse with a person married to someone else.


Arousal by various types of masks. Fetish masks, leather bondage masks, gas masks, etc.


Attraction to self-pleasure or masturbating a partner or being masturbated by a partner.


A type of dehumanization where the individual is viewed as a sexual plaything, or used as some other non-living object such as furniture. The person objectifying another typically doesn’t concern themselves with whether or not the other person is receiving any pleasure, but rather focuses on their own satisfaction. The person who enjoys being objectified often enjoys the disconnect, or simply serving their owner.

Orgasm Denial

Restricted or being restricted from cumming despite intense desire to do so.


This fetish is for people who see themselves as non-human or demi-human, or are attracted to such people. They are sometimes called “otherkin” and see themselves as part dragon, or fox, or cat, or any number of beings.


Deriving pleasure from varying levels of pain.(edited)


Being attracted to jealousy and being possessive of the ones you are with. The possessive fetish does not imply monogamy, as a Poly Master may be possessive of all his slaves.


Animalistic, instinctual, rough and spontaneous. Dominant dynamics are called Primal Hunters, and submissive power dynamics are called Primal prey.


Engaging in sexual activities in a place where there is a risk of being seen. Some common locations are library stacks, wooded parks, etc. This can also include semi-private places such as public toilets or swinger clubs.


Anal stimulation with the tongue.


Being bound or binding others with rope.


Sex without speaking and making no noise. Sometimes called “hold the moan”.


Impact play with various instruments, typically focusing on the ass but can include other areas.


The front of one partner (the big spoon) pressing up against the back of the other partner (the little spoon).


Ingesting ejaculate or having one’s ejaculate ingested.


Needles. Ink. Skin art.


Aroused by the romanticism of vampirism. There are many variations, but it often focuses on tight-knit, small and exclusive clans of people with the same fetish.


Watching someone sexually expose themselves, masturbate or have sex. This fits well with someone who is an exhibitionist.

A Guide To Posting Media

Posting media is one of the many perks to being an age verified Resident. You are permitted to post pretty much anything almost anywhere in the house. However, please understand the following rules and guidelines to stay in the good graces of the Staff.

No explicit media or roleplay allowed in the Guest Wing. This can result in a ban on the first infraction, depending on the severity.

In the Library, almost anything goes, full nudity, hardcore sex, fetishes, and so on. DO NOT share anything illegal like CP or bestiality. If something is questionable, it will be removed and the poster will be warned or banned, depending on the severity.

Also no gore. That’s a bit too fringe for this community as it is often inherently not safe, sane or consensual.

Do not post media and links in the Dungeon QnA channel or the at the Fireplace. These rooms are for serious discussions.

Residents are allowed to post nude selfies in the Library, but we also have have a Locked Box with content visible only to those who are chat level 10 or higher. If you would rather only share images with those you’ve had time to get to know, this would be where you place them.